Weddings
are a transition stage of living with your parents to moving in with
your spouse to start a new life. A
wedding is an official form of recognizing a union between a man and a woman.
The final transition symbol is when the bride is taken from the arm of her
father or parents and given into the arms of her husband. Weddings are a happy
occasion to celebrate with family and friends.
The
average cost of a wedding in the United States costs over $20,000. If you’re
planning your big day, don’t let that number scare you! There are loads of
creative methods to implement your wedding ideas without sacrificing what
matters most to you.
One of the best
ways to save is with your wedding venue. A wedding venue could be many
things, but for most weddings, it means a place for the ceremony and a place
for the reception. Planning the wedding venue is really the first step in
planning a wedding – everything else hinges on the location.
Going
into debt as soon as you get married is a bad way to start off a marriage.
Many
couples go into debt paying for a wedding and instead could have used the money
as a down payment on a home. You can
still have a fabulous wedding without breaking the bank. A wedding should be
memorable but memories don’t have to be expensive. So start off your wedding planning right by
making the most cost-effective decision. Here are 33 cool ways to do just that.
- Budget - Ask for a discount if you pay in full. Keep budget at
$10,000 or less.
- Off-Season - Get married in November or January, to reduce costs and save
money if you go on a honeymoon. Schedule the wedding during off-peak
times such as October, November or January through March. April through
October are peak seasons for weddings so choose a time outside of those months.
Avoid getting married near a holiday when prices are higher.
- Party
Later - Have a small reception and a party later with 50 people or less.
- Bouquets
– Use a
long-stemmed bouquet, elbow bouquets or create your own. Choose seasonal
or local flowers and keep arrangements simple or choose flowers that have
larger buds to save money.
- Food - Eat standing up instead of a sit-down dinner or have a
buffet where guests can get the food themselves. Have potluck wedding if you
are having a small number of guests. Guests can bring their favorite dish. Purchase food in season. Use a caterer that
does not specialize in catering weddings. Select inexpensive items such as
chicken, pasta or macaroni and cheese and provide no more than 2 meal options.
- Alcohol - Offer a cash bar or bring your own alcohol and pay a
corkage charge to have the alcohol served.
- Music - Use a band instead of a DJ unless you can find a great
up-and-coming DJ. Be your own DJ and use your iPod, iPad or MP3 player for
music instead of hiring a DJ.
- Desert - Buy individual cupcakes instead of a wedding cake or buy
a smaller cake to prevent leftovers.
- Invitations - Use office supply stores such as FedexKinkos or
Staples to make invitations. Keep designs simple to reduce costs. Use one
envelope instead of 2 when mailing invitations; this also eliminates using of a
postage paid return envelope. Use online event websites such as Evite to send
invitations. Use postcards for RSVPs instead of a folded card and matching
envelope. If your wedding is the same
place as the reception don’t use a reception card.
- Official - Get a non-clergy person to officiate the wedding. A friend or relative can register online for
a small fee up to $40 and receive a certificate in the mail.
- Venue - Your wedding venue should be the location for your wedding
and reception. Use a hall for the reception and try to find own that lets you
use your own caterer. Use a hall that is not normally use for weddings. You can
also have a wedding at an art gallery, hotel, in a park, backyard, church,
beach, community clubhouse or recreation center. Get at least 3 quotes.
- Wedding planner - Be the planner. Plan your wedding instead of
using a wedding planner. Get family and friends to help with the planning.
- Barter - Use bartering to reduce costs with sites such as barternews.com
- Wedding
Dress - Buy latest year’s style, a non-designer dress, off-the-rack dress or a
non-white dress, at consignment shops, designer or sample sales,
eBay, have your dress made, rent a dress, or a consider a used gown.
- Bridesmaids
Dresses - Let the bridesmaids pick their own dresses and colors or buy regular
cocktail or evening dresses.
- Toast
- Skip buying champagne for the toast.
Guests can toast with whatever they are drinking.
- Spouse - Your spouse and groomsmen can buy nice suits instead of
tuxedos for the wedding.
- Makeup - Wash your face thoroughly that
morning and get a facial at least 3 days prior to getting your makeup done
for your wedding. Ask the makeup artist to leave a touch-up case behind for
you to save money. Consider going to a department makeup counter to get a
makeup to save money.
- Optics - Get referrals from friends or
family or look for inexpensive packages. Spend money on the most important
pictures and consider hiring an intern and student for additional pictures.
Get pictures taken or video but don’t spend money on both.