Weddings in America are a transition stage of
living with your parents to moving in with your spouse to start a new
life. A wedding is an official form of
recognizing a union between a man and a woman. Weddings are a happy occasion to
celebrate with family and friends.
The average cost of a wedding in the United
States costs over $20,000. If you are planning your big day, do not let that
number scare you! There are several creative methods to implement your
wedding ideas without sacrificing what matters most to you.
Going into debt as soon as you get married is
the wrong way to start a marriage. Many couples go into debt paying for a
wedding and instead could have used the money as a down payment on a home. You can have a fabulous wedding without
breaking the bank. A wedding should be memorable but memories do not have to be
expensive. Start your wedding planning by
making the most cost-effective decisions. Here are 20 fabulous to save money on
your wedding.
1. Negotiate
- Get offers
from at least three companies and compare prices, reputation and services
provided.
2.
Budget - Keep budget at $10,000 or less.
3. Pay
in full - Ask for a discount if you pay in full.
4.
Off-Season - Get married in November or January, to reduce costs and save
money if you go on a honeymoon. Schedule the wedding during off-peak
times such as October, November or January through March. April through
October are peak seasons for weddings so choose a time outside of those months.
Avoid getting married near a holiday when prices are higher.
5.
Invitations - Use office supply stores such as FedexKinkos or
Staples to make invitations. Keep designs simple to reduce costs. Use one
envelope instead of two when mailing invitations; this also eliminates using of
a postage paid return envelope. Use online event websites such as Evite to send
invitations. Use postcards for RSVPs instead of a folded card and matching
envelope. If your wedding is the same
place as the reception don’t use a reception card.
6.
Time - Get married during the week instead of on the weekend or on
a Friday or Sunday night.
Saturdays are the most expensive. You can also have a morning wedding. If you
have a night wedding, have hors d'oeuvres instead of a full meal. Have your wedding at
lunchtime or use a food truck to save on food costs.
7.
Vendor - Use newer or recently opened businesses for services.
Stick to your budget, be firm with prices with vendors. Connect with
vendors on social media or via email to get notifications about deals and
specials. Also, call vendors to ask about discounts or specials that may not be
advertised, to negotiate a lower price for goods or services or donate
services. Ask friends to donate services such as photography or event planning
instead of buying a gift. Be firm with prices with vendors and ask
for a discount if you pay in full.
8.
Venue - Your wedding venue should be the location for your wedding
and reception. Use a hall for the reception and try to find own that lets you
use your own caterer. Use a hall that is not normally use for weddings. You can
also have a wedding at an art gallery, hotel, in a park, backyard, church,
beach, community clubhouse or recreation center. Get at least 3 quotes.
9.
Wedding planner - Be the planner. Plan your wedding instead of
using a wedding planner. Get family and friends to help with the planning.
10.
Wedding
Dress - Buy latest year’s style, a non-designer dress, off-the-rack dress or a
non-white dress, at consignment shops, designer or sample sales,
eBay, have your dress made, rent a dress, or a consider a used gown.
11.
Bridesmaids
Dresses - Let the bridesmaids pick their own dresses and colors or buy regular
cocktail or evening dresses.
12.
Music - Use a band instead of a DJ unless you can find a great
up-and-coming DJ. Be your own DJ and use your iPod, iPad or MP3 player for
music instead of hiring a DJ.
13. Bouquets
– Use a
long-stemmed bouquet, elbow bouquets or create your own. Choose seasonal
or local flowers and keep arrangements simple or choose flowers that have
larger buds to save money.
14.
Food - Eat standing up instead of a sit-down dinner or have a
buffet where guests can get the food themselves. Have potluck wedding if you
are having a small number of guests. Guests can bring their favorite dish. Purchase food in season. Use a caterer that
does not specialize in catering weddings. Select inexpensive items such as
chicken, pasta or macaroni and cheese and provide no more than two meal
options. Server hors d'oeuvres instead of a full meal. Have your wedding at
lunchtime or use a food truck to save on food costs.
15.
Alcohol - Offer a cash bar or bring your own alcohol and pay a
corkage charge to have the alcohol served. Skip buying champagne for the toast.
Guests can toast with whatever they are drinking.
16.
Desert - Buy individual cupcakes instead of a wedding cake or buy
a smaller cake to prevent leftovers.
17. Makeup
- Wash your face thoroughly that morning and get a facial at least 3 days prior
to getting your makeup done for your wedding. Ask the makeup artist to leave a
touchup case behind for you to save money. Consider going to a department
makeup counter to get a makeup to save money.
18. Optics
- Get referrals from friends, family, or look for inexpensive packages. Spend
money on the most important pictures and consider hiring an intern and student
for additional pictures. Get pictures taken or video but do not spend money on
both.
19. Limousine
- Save money by renting a town car or old-fashioned car for your bridal
parties.
20. Shorten
the Reception – instead of having a 4-hour reception have a 2-hour reception.
